If you cant quit, at least try to cut back. It will affect the child. My children were brought up around second hand smoke, but I always tried to keep them away from it, either in another part of the home they were not allowed in or outside smoking only. My youngest tried it and realized how dumb it was to start, after seeing me take so long to quick. My oldest is a goody girl so I really don't think she would ever come near one. Now my middle child has slipped into the cracks a little bit, but she understands now being a mother why so many parents that smoke don't want their children not to follow in the same mistakes the parents have made. I'm sure she will be quitting shortly, she has cut back since she was pregnant, and even more after his birth.

I'm quite proud of her, its taken me more than 20 years to quit. I know how hard it can be.