So my best friend's baby is almost a month old (give or take) and she's about out of the money they saved up for her maternity leave. Her husband has been out of work for at least the past 6 months because he won't work retail, food services, etc because "the first time he saw someone he knew he would die" *rolls eyes*So while its great he can stay home with the baby, I worry about what will happen. He doesn't do housework, and he's obviously not the brightest most mature individual despite now being responsible for a wife and child. Any ideas on how to get him into helping out and stepping up?