Do you both have the same number in mind or does one of you want one or two while the other one wants at least ten? And, who's winning the argument? I think we'd be thrilled with just one. I'm just curious to see everyone else's way of thinking.

Yes, we do, Both of us would like to have 3 children. If there's more then that's ok because we love kids. :D

My (now ex) and I, we thought maybe just two, you know lucky one of each. We ended up with three, he really wanted a boy and it took three times to get one. Oddly, not long after our son was born - we realized how completely different we were for one another. That works for many, just didn't work for us. :)

My husband and I disagreed. I poked holes in the condom to get my last son...

We certainly do not. We have a son now, I would like to have at least one more, two at the most, but he's saying that he is finished, sometimes he seems almost fearful when he thinks there is a chance I may be pregnant.

This thread brings back memories. My husband was kind enough to leave it up to me (kind of). He said he wanted at least one, but that I was the one that had to be pregnant, give birth, and handle most of the rearing, so it was up to me! We ended up with two (lost one between). Then I had to really protect myself from myself. I would've had ten ! So had my tubes tied after the last one. (also had very difficult deliverys).

Not exactly, my son is from a previous relationship, my husband welcomes him with open arms, and I told him that if he and I got a girl (when I was pregnant) he could share my son, he said thats cool. Well, we got a girl, and think we are going to stick with just one, but who knows, maybe he will want a boy at some point. I have no issues with either.