In all likelihood, and for reasons I would rather not discuss here, I will never have another baby. But still I think about it from time to time.

How do you deal with the baby blues?

Offer to babysit for a new mom. I'm fairly close to a couple of other mothers and we have always shared babysitting, but since I'm not interested in having any more myself babysitting is a great thing for both parties. You get to experience having more than one and they get a much needed day or night off.

Ah, I'm sorry. Sometimes life circumstances just work out that way, and you have to accept it. I think it is completely normal and necessary to grieve for the end of your reproductive cycle.