Can someone walk me through having a surrogate? My wife and I are thinking this might be the only option we have besides adoption and we are not sure on this. Her eggs work, my sperm works but it seems for some reason they don't work together. Thank you in advance, we are looking for answers and it seems too confusing when doctors take about it.

I really don't know much about this situation as I don't know actually know anyone that has done it. Hopefully someone will come in with an answer.

If your sperm and eggs don't work together, full surrogacy is out of the question. If you plan to use donor sperm or donor eggs, your wife maybe able to carry the child. If it's that her uterus for some reason will not carry the child, then surrogacy is the only other answer to have a child that is genetically yours. Though I think this is highly overrated and adoption should be considered.

There are many ways this is done. Do you have a family member who is willing to carry a baby for you? There are agencies to connect willing women with those wanting a surrogate. Your fertility spe******t should be able to assist you in this matter.