Hi,

my husband and I trying to become pregnant since a half year. Not a long time, but for me it seems forever :(

Someone else here with the same problem?

Hi iam from german my english is not so good, my husband and i we have wait three years. And now we have a baby it is a girl her name is Anabell.
You dont think if you make sex with your husband " i will a baby, i will a baby". You must think" it is okay if i get a baby now and if not get a baby now it is okay too".
I know it is realy heavy ( hard ). You can pray to god, you can says him all your wishes.
i think on you

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Sometimes it just takes awhile. But if you think something may be wrong, why not see a fertility doctor and get checked out. If he tells you nothing is wrong, it will ease your mind. And if he does find a problem, maybe there will be a treatment for whatever it is. Good luck to you.

Yea, if you can't seem to have one after a lot of trying, both should get tested at a clinic, as a precaution.

There are also some herbal treatments to increase your fertility, but you should speak to your doctor about that stuff.

There is a ovulation calculator on the babycenter website http://www.babycenter.com/calculators/ovulation/

You just enter the day you started your last period and tell them how long your cycle usually lasts. From this information, they can tell you when you're most likely to be fertile over the next 6 months. Worth a shot, especially since you really haven't been trying that long. If that doesn't help, then you should definitely see a fertility specialest.

In a lot of cases the couple are simply trying to hard and over thinking having a baby. My advice to you is just relax, enjoy each other and let nature take it's course. It will happen when you least expect it to.

Half a year is not really very long at all. Some couples are married for years before they manage to conceive. Have you tried using an ovulation kit? That might help you to find the best time to try to conceive.

In a lot of cases the couple are simply trying to hard and over thinking having a baby. My advice to you is just relax, enjoy each other and let nature take it's course. It will happen when you least expect it to.


I agree with you.

TheNanna got it right, stop trying so hard and just enjoy the process. Give it a year, if you're still not "with child", then consider going to a fetility clinic. You really can't rush these things.

The majority of couples with no fertility issues get pregnant within a year. If you're under 30, your doctor if probably not going to rush to perform a bunch of tests and your insurance company is not going to want to pay for them. I know six months seems like a long time. I know. It seemed like a long time for us too six-and-a-half years ago.

In a lot of cases the couple are simply trying to hard and over thinking having a baby. My advice to you is just relax, enjoy each other and let nature take it's course. It will happen when you least expect it to.
Of course, if the problem is medical infertility no amount of relaxation or underthinking is going to do anything to help or change the situation at all. And after years and years of trying you get to the point where if you here just relax one more time you're going to strangle someone. :D

Myself and husband waited almost two years for our girl (born last Oct.). Alot had to deal with stress, it seems once you stop the worry deal - all works out in the end. I was just worried since I dealt with alot of ovarian cysts after my son in 2002. :)

I am off the birth control pill since March 2005 and still not pregnant. We started seeing my OB/GYN Doctor and she couldn't find anything wrong with me or my husband. I started last month taking clomiphene without any side effects, was ovulating perfect and on day 12 I had a big good egg (my doctor said so after performing an ultrasound), on day 13 of my cycle we had to go back, they washed my husbands sperm and did the insemination. It didn't work!!! Tomorrow we will have our second insemination and I really hope it will work out this time. I am still pretty young with 28 years but I am just tired of geting disappointed every month when my period is showing up, plus it is expensive and my insurance will cover only 4 times of the procedure.

I just wish you the best luck and if it would help, I would pray for you too. Just have faith that you will have a child and never lose hope. Miracles happen everyday and your story might be one of them. Try not to get anxious, be positive and that will set your body to accept the insemination.

:mad: Well, I have my period again so in 13 days there will be Insemination number 3

I am so sorry to hear that you are having problems like this. I have some friends who had the same problem and finally got pregnant only when they stopped trying. The doctor theorised that the stress was simply too much for them, and was affecting their bodies adversely.

So, after 4 IUI's and 1 cycle of IVF my doctor tells me I am pregnant. :D Not sure if I can believe it since I waited over 3 years for this but the blood test shows that I am.

I have a problem which left me infertile. I was told at sixteen but never worried. I had an issue having babies, but miracles do happen and now I have my little boy, a gift and miracle to both me and my husband.

So just stick in there! Keep us updated with your progress