Do you have someone you can leave your baby with if you just need a couple of days away? Have you gone anywhere without your baby yet? How soon were you able to trust leaving him/her with somebody?

Luckily I always had neighbors with kids, we both depended on each other often, but it always turned out good.

I have a couple of friends who are already saying they can lend me a hand when needed, provided I do the same for them also :D.

I doubt I'll ever trust anyone but their grandmas. And they're not exactly a convenient distance from us. I guess if we ever want to get some alone time, one of the grandmas would probably be willing to come stay with the babies.