I'm almost 22 weeks pregnant with my first child (like 21 weeks and 5 or 6 days, lol). I was about 105 before I got pregnant and am now at about 118. Have I gained too much for this stage in my pregnancy or is this normal? I haven't really been concerned, but my boyfriend's ex-wife sent him an email saying that she wanted to tell me I've gotten really big when she saw us Sunday when we picked up his daughters. But I don't feel that I've gained too much because I have so many people tell me that I'm so tiny for being 5 months pregnant. I have self-confidence issues at times so I'm just looking for some honest advice to help me out! Thank you everyone!

Your boyfriend's ex-wife is really rude! I can't believe she said that to you!

I was about 110 when I got pregnant with my first. I gained roughly a pound a week, though there were a few weeks I gained more than that so I ended at 45 lbs. It was healthy for my body type. Don't worry about what other people say. Everyone grows a baby differently.

Exactly, everyone is completely different in the way they carry. Your weight and height come into play when someone is trying to size you up. Maybe that ex is an ex for a good reason and shes just plain mean like that who knows? If your doctors are happy with your weight and your not having any issues, don't mind the bugger!