DadToBe

Did you just kinda let nature takes its course or did you get all scientific and plan out the prime times to try? My girlfriend had us on a "cycle" for lack of better words. I mean in the end it worked and all but I thought the plotting out the the logistics of trying to make a baby was alittle weird.

Lily

Kinda takes the fun out of it doesn't it? Procreational sex on demand.

DadToBe

exactly what I thought but I learned fast you don't argue for very long with a pregnant girlfriend LOL.

Lily

Yeah, but she wasn't pregnant yet. Perfect time to get the arguing out of your system.

Gramma

We just let nature take it's course. I would not have wanted to do it any other way. I would have felt unnatural doing it mechanically.

alexis

We tried for over a year for our little girl that was born last Oct, but I think b/c I inherited ovarian cysts from my mother (which did not start mind you until after my first was born), toward the end we were really starting to think it would not happen at all.

I ended up resigning from my job (not enough work hours/money, too far, etc.) and after we quit stressing over stuff, it worked.

Gramma

Case in point! When you try to force nature she balks. Ever noticed how people accidently get pregnant all the time, but when they try it doesn't work out?

cutebaby

Why is it that nature is like that? When you want something, its hard to get it. When you don't want something, it lets you have it easily.

This is not only on pregnancy but on other things like health. You want to get slim, its really to lose those fats but its very easy to acquire them.