sbzahn

I am 32 weeks pregnant and virtually my whole pregnancy, I just havent been in the mood. When my husband and I talk about it, all we do is fight. The few times we have been intimate, It hurts and burns. My G Spot seems to just be non existant, and it just isnt the same for me anymore. I try to explain, but he doesnt understand. It seems like he doesnt care. I love him very much, but lately it just seems like it's because he isnt getting all the attention anymore, and I just fear that because neither of us really wanted this pregnancy to happen (at least not yet....) thats why he just doesnt care if it hurts or is hard for me. This is our second child. All the weight I've gained is in my tummy. My back hurts, I have restless leg... etc etc.... there are just so many factors that contribute to why I'm moody and uncomfortable having sex. I know that no one can actually fix my problem, but I guess I'm just looking to see if I'm the only one or if other wives are having this same experience. I dont want to hurt his feelings, and I dont want him to think its because I dont love him. When I get home from work I'm just too drained to even think about it. He is a stay at home dad, and I just dont think he understands what I'm going through.

Momof7

He doesn't understand. There isn't a man who does because they have never been pregnant. In spite of that, you are going to need to work something out. Have you talked with your doctor about this?

Momof9

At 32 weeks all your body is doing is preparing for delivery. And yes, your G spot is temporarily out of service. He won't understand and he's struggling with not being that important anymore. But, that said, try lying on your side with him snuggled up behind you. That way none of the weight or exertion is on you. He needs to use a lubricant. If he takes it easy you should both be okay.