alexis

Dearly loves children and while being a lesbian its going to be a little hard to make her own. She has been in a couple of relationships with others who have had children and in the past 8 years at least two stick out for me that she has gotten attached and the relationship faded for one reason or another. I really wish she wasnt so heartbroken over this, but its the same as a straight relationship in getting attached to kiddos early and then its fades. Any suggestions to cheer her up right now from anyone out there?

Karis

This is a toughie. I can only imagine how she must be feeling not only did she loose a lover she also lost the kids. It can't be easy but with anything I can only say time will heal all wounds. She needs to give it time and you just need to support her and be there.

Joe Micheal

Thank you for information for all and me also.

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Hyper

The best thing you can do for her is to make her get involved in activities that will make her forget her pain. Be there for her and support her decisions. Perhaps going to the cinema or to a club might help her take her mind of her loss. I agree with Karis: time is the best healer.

lela

Time will heal her as well as getting involved in other things. Her friends need to give her some support. Keep her as busy as you can.

Bellatrix

Yeah, in many cases, time is the best healer. She should know that it hurt not only her but also her then partners, it it helps any at all.