leopard777

My sister is sterile.
She can’t have babies.
I was thinking, hum that’s fair in fact.
During years I thought, my sister doesn’t manage her live very well.
until 25 years old she never did a student job.
Always lazily she was always asking her parents to give her money.

She never tried to find a student job.

Then she started to work. Very late. 26 years old.
She didn’t want to work in a real private company. She thought it was to difficult.
She was afraid of the challenging situations in the private companies.
She decided to find an easy job in an hospital.
She studied nurse during years and years, and she enjoyed the good salary from the government. No risks to be fired.
Easy money she thought. She doesn’t know there is a justice for everything.

She has the same salary as an executive in a private company.
She do nearly nothing. Just watch handicapped children the whole day.
Basically it’s like stealing money

2 years later. Impossible to have a baby. Nothing. Her husband divorce.

I thought, well done. The nature it's logic. Easy money doesn't success.

Wanda

I don't think the fact that that your sister tries to take the easy road makes her deserving of infertility. Not every body matures at the same time, it is really sad that you seem to be ok with her unfortunate situation. I pray, she gets her life straight and is able to have a baby.

Shoey

What a sad situation; both for you and for her. Why would anyone be happy because of someone's infertility?? That's beyond me. What silly logic behind your reasoning. Just because she's not had a steady job (or any job) doesn't make her an unfit mother. Maybe I sense some jealousy from you, Leopard777. I pray that your sister finds herself well, and will one day be blessed with a baby. I also pray for you to find some compassion for your sister.