Hi All,
My wife and I just had our first child, a boy named Jacob. Jacob is 6 days old and was born a very healthy happy boy. We've run into an issue with jaundice and are getting a lot of conflicting advice....bear with me.
My wife would like to breast feed our baby. Jacob has a slightly recessed pallette from sucking on his tongue in the womb, as a result he has very little sucking ability at birth.
We worked with a lactation spe******t during our stay in the hospital (S&S, syringe, massage the pallette, special bottles, etc) twice. The hospital discharged us before Jacob was fully sucking either the bottle or breast (which has made us very angry at the hospital). The lactation spe******t told us to "make sure he gets at least 15 ml and he'll pick up the sucking soon". So, we make sure he gets 15ml to 60ml every two hours for a few days and then we find he has jaundice.
We've been getting blood tests done by our pediatrician from day 3 through day 6 (today is day 6). The pediatrician recommends to attempt breast feeding for 15 min per side and then give him "as much supplement has he wants".
The problem is, since his suction is so poor he gets tired and goes to sleep. It takes a lot of stimulation (tickle the feet, rub the jowels, cold wash cloth, etc) to get Jacob to continue sucking. Generally, he can finish 60 ml of breast milk in about 15 minutes....60 ml of Similac takes about one hour (we don't think he likes it). We're now trying Enfamil, which he seems to like and took 80 ml in about 1 hour.
Total Bilirubin is currently 16.9.
My wife and I have been killing ourselves staying up late and using the pump to get Jacob 60 ml of breast milk every two hours. We assumed this would be best for his diet and jaundice, plus he likes it much better than formula. Our pediatrician tells us we are cheating him out of sucking and that we won't be able to sustain the breast milk with pump alone (the lactation spe******t said otherwise).
What do we need to do here?
How much formula should he be taking per 2 to 3 hour feeding time?
Is there a forumla that is best for dealing with jaundice?
Will forumla cause constipation? (Jacob didn't have a BM for almost a full day on similac but the breast milk has a natural softener and helps with his BM which in turn *should* clean out the bilirubin). Then again, he's only a few days old and only recently stopped passing merconian(sp).
We're also using sunlight to help break the bilirubin down. Thanks for any help you can offer.