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Old 02-05-07, 06:37 PM   Offending Relatives Post #1 (permalink)
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What's a nice way of saying "uhhh... no" when an elderly relative asks you to consider naming your child after one of your ancestors? I love Granny dearly, but naming my son after her daddy was just not something I could have done. Nimrod... who names their child that?
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Old 02-05-07, 08:20 PM   Offending Relatives Post #2 (permalink)
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Say you are already thinking of some names, but aren't too sure about it yet, and say that you will take it into consideration.
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Old 02-05-07, 08:31 PM   Offending Relatives Post #3 (permalink)
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I know the feeling. Do what you feel.
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Old 02-05-07, 09:13 PM   Offending Relatives Post #4 (permalink)
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Tell them that if they want to name a child, perhaps they should have another of their own
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Old 02-06-07, 11:46 AM   Offending Relatives Post #5 (permalink)
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Tell them that if they want to name a child, perhaps they should have another of their own
Tell that to Granny? I don't think so. In my family that's considered disrespectful. She's old, you just don't talk back to old people.
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Old 02-06-07, 02:38 PM   Offending Relatives Post #6 (permalink)
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Ha! I guess it depends on the Grandma. I don't think I would be too offended if that was said to me. As long as they give a reason why they don't like the name.
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Old 02-08-07, 10:40 AM   Offending Relatives Post #7 (permalink)
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Ha! I guess it depends on the Grandma. I don't think I would be too offended if that was said to me. As long as they give a reason why they don't like the name.
Then I'm guessing you're not from the south, and you're not in your mid 80's. Seems old southern ladies are easily offended.
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Old 02-08-07, 09:56 PM   Offending Relatives Post #8 (permalink)
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My mother-in-law is like that also. She doesn't push it that much, but sometimes gets offended. We reassure her that we love her though.
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Old 02-08-07, 10:02 PM   Offending Relatives Post #9 (permalink)
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I am only a middle-aged, midwestern gal. I don't take things that seriously, I find no need to.
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Old 02-10-07, 12:45 PM   Offending Relatives Post #10 (permalink)
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Just sweetly tell them you'll add the name to your list.
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