cutebaby

Adoption or Surrogacy?

I would prefer adoption better than surrogacy because at least both of us knows that the child is from another person.

With surrogacy, the other person who is infertile might have indifference after some time when the child is growing because he/she doesn't have a direct or blood connection to the child. But a lot of families have done surrogacy and it works for them.

What will you choose give this choice?

alexis

I would first consider all ways to do this, consider what I can financial do, and go from there. I think for each person everyone is a little different, so it really depends on your lifestyle.

BlueEyez

I think *I* would have a problem with having someone be a surrogate for me just because it seems like it would be awfully terrible to carry a baby and give birth and then never see it again! I would rather adopt because then I am giving a home to a baby that wouldn't have had a good home otherwise.